I don't think there are any affordable ip based lighting solutions.  In the US, Z-Wave is probably the most affordable, but one would have to add an ip based gateway to bridge the Z-Wave network and the local area network.  Non of these gateways are opensource and the Z-Wave protocol is also non-public.
For most things I rely on serial control and use serial port servers such as the Lantronix WiBox so that serial communications are over the network.
				
			For most things I rely on serial control and use serial port servers such as the Lantronix WiBox so that serial communications are over the network.
 
	 example but is very simple.
 example but is very simple.